You know, I hear guys say time and time again that they think that women want to be treated badly, because they always seem to pick the bad boys over the nice guys. When I hear a guy say that, and use that as an excuse for why he is not doing well with women, it makes me laugh a little. Why? Without even knowing it, that line of thinking keeps a guy from getting to the core of what women really want.
WHY BAD BOYS DO WELL WITH WOMEN
There is a very good explanation why the bad boys seem to have a much easier time than “good” guys do when it comes to dating or seduction. And it might not be what you think it is. Understanding why bad boys do well with women is not about learning how to be a jerk to women.
With some exception, the reason why women like the bad boys has nothing to do with a deep desire to be treated like dirt. Yeah, there are some women out there that may have that “issue,” but it is not all of them. Women like bad boys because of the way that they feel when they are around one. And that is what bad boy seduction is all about. Making her feel THAT way.
If you want to seduce women like the bad boys do, then listed below are a few things that will help:
1) Your approach has to have a more aggressive, take charge kind of feel to it.
Don’t take this the wrong way. There is a good way to aggressively approach a woman and a bad way. The bad way is to do it with an almost disregard for her altogether. The good way to approach a woman aggressively is to just go ahead and do it without waiting around or thinking about it too much. Bad boys don’t wait for permission to approach a woman, they just do it. They don’t sit around and contemplate what she might say or do… they find out by actually walking up to her.
2) Be real. Be yourself when you are around her.
Nice guys tend to think that they are more real than the bad boys, but that is not always the case. In fact, many times and in many ways, they are MORE real. They don’t try and put on an act to get her to like them. They just are who they are. For most women, this is a lot more appealing than to know that a guy is just approaching with some kind of act or an ulterior motive for his acting so nice. Let her get to know the REAL YOU.
3) Learn how to make a woman want more of you.
Good guys tend to give too much to a woman, especially right away. The woman does not have to do anything at all, and they want to spend all of their time, and their energy, and even their money on her. The bad boys make the woman want more by being less attached, more independent, and at the end of the day… more like what women want men to be like.
Do you want to keep on playing the “nice guy,” or would you rather learn how to seduce a woman in a way that makes her respond to YOU?
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