Love Tips for Men – How to Make a Woman Love You Without Having to Turn Into a Total Pushover

Have you ever been in a situation where you were around a guy who was trying just way too hard to try and make a woman like him? Maybe you have been that guy in that scenario and you know first hand how much it sucks to feel like you are being a total pushover and then you have to deal with the fact that even after all of that– she still does not seem to feel the same way about you. It happens all of the time, even guys who seem to do okay with women will turn into a total pushover when they are trying hard to make a woman fall in love with them.

Here’s how you can make it happen without having to go down that route of being a total pushover:

1. From the start you have to be conscious of whether or not you are trying too hard to win her over.

Guys, we usually know it, we usually get some kind of sense that we are trying just a little too hard. When you get that feeling, take a conscious look and see if you really are trying too hard to make a woman like you. If you are, then you need to take a step back. Sometimes, when you just are caught up in the moment, you can end up doing it without even realizing it. Be aware of the whether or not you are creeping too close to being a pushover or not.

2. Realize that when you come off as trying too hard, all you are going to get is friendship if you are lucky.

Actually if you are unlucky, you will end up attracting the kind of woman that takes advantages of pushovers and you will end up being one of those guys that does favors, runs errands, spends money and ends up being her sounding board when she wants to complain about the jerk she is dating. You don’t want to be that guy, and the best that will happen is that you end up being her friend at the most.

3. Position yourself as having high social value.

Guys who are perceived as having high social value usually don’t have to do much of anything to make a woman fall in love with them, it just kind of happens. Show her that you are that guy with high social status, the guy that does not need to suck up or try too hard to get women to like you. That will get you what you want without having to be a total pushover.